My girlfriend is bisexual. We have been dating awhile now and she still amazes me. Well just a little while ago she started to kiss this girl she knows. Its just a short little kiss (its in school thats why). But now I can't even kiss my girlfriend. Everytime I go in for a kiss my girl always says no to me. I just talked to her and I said I didn't like it when she kissed that girl. Did I take this to far with her? I mean me and her are dating not her and her friend. She sounded upset when I told her. But I just want to know if I took it to far.
P.S I don't care about "girl on girl" , "threesomes" or whatever so don't even bother posting that.
Well, in general girls are more affectionate with their friends than guys are. Hence why we walk around holding hands and hug a lot. Short kisses generally only occur with very close friends but there's rarely any passion behind them. Straight, bi and gay girls kiss their friends like that.
When you said you disliked her doing that, she probably took it to mean you don't like her being affectionate. Rather than saying something about it you should have confronted her about not kissing YOU. How she shows affection towards her friends is irrelevant, the actual issue is that she won't kiss the guy she's dating. I wouldn't say you went too far, you just handled it wrong. Next time, address the real issue and not something that's small in comparison.
But to be fair, you did better than my ex. He was insecure about my bisexuality and I couldn't so much as hug another girl around him. He disliked my sexuality that much. It's good that you can accept your girlfriend, and better that you're not going to take advantage of it, eg threesomes, girl on girl etc
My girlfriend is bisexual. We have been dating awhile now and she still amazes me. Well just a little while ago she started to kiss this girl she knows. Its just a short little kiss (its in school thats why). But now I can't even kiss my girlfriend. Everytime I go in for a kiss my girl always says no to me. I just talked to her and I said I didn't like it when she kissed that girl. Did I take this to far with her? I mean me and her are dating not her and her friend. She sounded upset when I told her. But I just want to know if I took it to far.
P.S I don't care about "girl on girl" , "threesomes" or whatever so don't even bother posting that.
Well, in general girls are more affectionate with their friends than guys are. Hence why we walk around holding hands and hug a lot. Short kisses generally only occur with very close friends but there's rarely any passion behind them. Straight, bi and gay girls kiss their friends like that.
When you said you disliked her doing that, she probably took it to mean you don't like her being affectionate. Rather than saying something about it you should have confronted her about not kissing YOU. How she shows affection towards her friends is irrelevant, the actual issue is that she won't kiss the guy she's dating. I wouldn't say you went too far, you just handled it wrong. Next time, address the real issue and not something that's small in comparison.
But to be fair, you did better than my ex. He was insecure about my bisexuality and I couldn't so much as hug another girl around him. He disliked my sexuality that much. It's good that you can accept your girlfriend, and better that you're not going to take advantage of it, eg threesomes, girl on girl etc
Wait i got something yep!
One word: "COMMUNICATION"
That seems to be one of the main issues with relationships in general nowadays. If there is no effective communication, which means freely speaking about whats on your mind and whats bothering you and most importantly listening to the other party's feelings with an open heart and mind, then there really is no relationship at all is there? You have the right to express your needs and wants as does she.
Talk it out and if an understanding or compromise cannot be reached, you may have to think about ending the relationship on a romantic level.
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One word: "COMMUNICATION"
That seems to be one of the main issues with relationships in general nowadays. If there is no effective communication, which means freely speaking about whats on your mind and whats bothering you and most importantly listening to the other party's feelings with an open heart and mind, then there really is no relationship at all is there? You have the right to express your needs and wants as does she.
Talk it out and if an understanding or compromise cannot be reached, you may have to think about ending the relationship on a romantic level.
Darkish likes this post.
I second it.. How did things go though?? you should have talked to her by now.. Did things go sour????? Or did it work out??? 💛 or or maybe even
[Edited by Tri_Edge_1836, 12/5/2009 4:17:07 AM]
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