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    Dancer posted on Feb 26, 2010 12:29:04 PM - Report post
     
    So, I was lurking around for a bit and found something about being overweight and sad so, I thought I would waffle about it for a while.

    I spent the majority of my younger years being a fatty-o-fat guy. I didn't really like it very much, girls didn't really notice how lovely I was. I assume that was because they weren't sure which one of my numerous chins was my face which, obviously caused confusion, I accept this. However, because my aesthetics were generally frowned upon by everyone, I came to rely on having a personality as some kind of social portfolio. I eventually lost my weight without really noticing (despite getting quite down on myself and having absolutely no self-confidence), I am now a little underweight somehow which means that society has moved from, finding me visually offensive to, ignoring me completely. Either way, I have kept the personality I developed as chubster which allows me to be witty, sensitive and have the ability to exchange a healthy amount of words with fellow human beings.

    This isn't "my success story" or any of that self-aggrandising nonsense, I have merely re-aligned the source of what makes me feel sad. There is no state of personal harmony and if you think there is, you aren't fully awake. Everyone is mentally ill, therapy only attempts to mould you into a form of insanity which is productive.

    What was I talking about again?
    Yeah, so, society is like a step-father, he will always tell you that you aren't good enough but, **** him he's a ****. By the definition of your existence, you're precisely as you should be. If you wan't to try and change, go for it but, the only justifiable reason to try and find gold at the end of a rainbow is just to simply find out if you can get there, not because you want the gold.

    What does that mean? Nothing, probably.

    Anyway, the more happy you try to be, the less happy you will become. Acceptance is really the only way you can actually be happy. Oh, and don't read beauty magazines.

    Any thoughts?

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    Dhampy posted on Feb 26, 2010 12:31:44 PM - Report post
     
    Hello.

    As for "fat" or "thin". Meh. I don't know any mature chicks worth bothering with who care.
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    Dancer posted on Feb 26, 2010 12:36:56 PM - Report post
     
    quote:
    originally posted by Dhampy

    Hello.

    As for "fat" or "thin". Meh. I don't know any mature chicks worth bothering with who care.

    I like to think I am the type of person who focuses on the finer qualities of other people but, I think I would be lying but, I wish I wasn't.

    I am never surprised though when I find a "fat" girl who is lovely and a "thin" girl is a dull *****. Quote-un-quote beautiful people seem to be cursed with the absence of substance other than a "view".

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    Foxxie-kun posted on Feb 26, 2010 1:24:59 PM - Report post
     
    Exactly.

    Be happy with who you are is what I say. Strive to better yourself and avoid health problems, and if that means staying a little plump or a little thin, go for it.

    Never get snowed by this "Thin is in" bollocks, people whom have beautiful personalities and spirits are more valuable to the world than people who lack them but have skin-deep "beauty".

    I'd sooner be in love with a chubby guy who'd love me and stay with me forever than a muscly hunk of a man who'd lie and cheat and hurt me because I'm not muscled and the picture of superficial "beauty".

    Luckily enough, my Wuffie and I wanna lose a bit of weight together, not because we want to be "beautiful" (We already are in each other's eyes), but because we don't want the health issues associated with being overweight such as diabetes, heart disease, etc.

    The improvements to our private time will just be a plus
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    Dhampy posted on Feb 26, 2010 1:28:19 PM - Report post
     
    At my point in life, I'm thinking of companionship rather than purely physical satisfaction.
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    Foxxie-kun posted on Feb 26, 2010 1:30:12 PM - Report post
     
    Companionship should be a priority over physical satisfaction at all points in life...

    If it was so simple, it would cut down on teen pregnancy, STD transmission, prostitution, etc. by quite a drastic amount...
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    toreador posted on Feb 26, 2010 1:45:12 PM - Report post
     
    Hello there

    I'm quite the opposite. I was thin when I was younger and I've ended up being a fatty. It's something I despised so when I started gaining weight and was unable to lose any I was really scared, withdrew from "real life", started spending my days online. That only made things worse as there were lots of people I hadn't seen for years who upon seeing me their first words were "wow you've really gained weight" and my response "orly? I hadn't noticed". It's still hard for me to accept it or even do something about it.

    As far as meeting fat/thin chicks, I really have no expectations but I've noticed fat chicks are more approachable.
    From what I've seen, guys have a hard time growing up if they're fat but once they're adults it gets easier.
    Trust is a fragile thing. Once trust is lost, it can be impossible to recover. Those we're closest to can betray us,and total strangers can come to our rescue. In the end, most people decide to trust only themselves. It really is the simplest way to keep from getting burned.
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    Dancer posted on Feb 26, 2010 1:48:13 PM - Report post
     
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