I don't know if you got the point as I wanted you to get it but in other words, if gays like men, then they shoud probably do what girls do...
Personally, I think it's just a choice. Maybe some gay fellows behave with more feminine qualities or behaviors because they feel that they identify with the female gender. Perhaps it's from all the stereotypes floating around in the media and whatnot, but I really can't say for sure. There could also be a hormonal factor, but I don't really think that there is one sole reason for their behavior.
It actually kind of makes sense.
If a guy wants to attract a guy, maybe there's a subconscious thought of "All guys like how girls act" and so they act like that to attract them.
It only makes sense if you think of gays as a concept, but it makes more sense for gays to want to attract other gay men, otherwise it's pointless.
Yes but you may be a stupid fisherman and think that the fish eat worms and so make a habit of feeding them worms, regardless of wether they bite or not.
You get a lot of fishermen throwing worms in rather than bait, then fish will most likely start to eat it anyway, some may even grow a preference for it.
See what I'm talking about?
I'm not saying it's a general homosexual thing, but maybe for some it could be an insecurity issue, like they feel they have to immitate women in order to comete with them. It's as if they're going for men who like women rather than men who like men. Not literally obviously, but subconsciously.