You have every right to tell her you aren't comfortable with her kissing anyone but you, regardless of guy or girl. If you can't be honest with someone you're dating then there's definitely something wrong.
As for the kissing, you two have to have a serious talk. You gotta find out how she feels about you and about her experience kissing a girl. Her experience with another girl could have changed her preference, that could mean trouble for your relationship. It's better to talk about it and decide if you'll still be dating each other than to let it possibly fall apart in a bad way. In the end it's really up to her, if she prefers girls then a relationship with a guy just can't work. But you can't have it both ways.
Well I mean we have kissed a lot before. But ever since she started to kiss her friend it seems to be we don't kiss that often anymore. I try to but its more like we barley touch lips and she walks away.
The problem may be you're paying attention with your wants without asking her what she wants (in this context, you sound incredibly selfish and insensitive). Never ever assume what she wants unless you know absolutely; always ask. It would've been better to ask why she doesn't kiss you anymore.
[Edited by L, 12/1/2009 4:18:58 PM]
This is true. I'm going to talk to her first thing in the morning.
The problem may be you're paying attention with your wants without asking her what she wants (in this context, you sound incredibly selfish and insensitive). Never ever assume what she wants unless you know absolutely; always ask. It would've been better to ask why she doesn't kiss you anymore.
[Edited by L, 12/1/2009 4:18:58 PM]
This is true. I'm going to talk to her first thing in the morning.
same thing happened to me 3 years ago...but I didn't really do anything about it so it went down the tube...
My girlfriend is bisexual. We have been dating awhile now and she still amazes me. Well just a little while ago she started to kiss this girl she knows. Its just a short little kiss (its in school thats why). But now I can't even kiss my girlfriend. Everytime I go in for a kiss my girl always says no to me. I just talked to her and I said I didn't like it when she kissed that girl. Did I take this to far with her? I mean me and her are dating not her and her friend. She sounded upset when I told her. But I just want to know if I took it to far.
P.S I don't care about "girl on girl" , "threesomes" or whatever so don't even bother posting that.
What you call problem about her being in some kind of desire for another girl has got nothing to do with you and her.
But of course if you guys still dating. I mean you might be in a date-stance with her but she's looking for an opportunity to skip out...., Maybe!
If you think you have gone to far, i must say no, you haven't. It's a fact that anyone get's confused -if not upset- being pushed or denied from a loved one.
I say you go further and try to clear thing out.
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