Also I have to agree with Halochik here. If that is how plainly you feel about the issue then there is something wrong.
I never viewed losing ones virginity as a right of passage into manhood. Just look at all the deadbeat dads and boyfriends who don't care. They are not "men" in my eyes.
I think it's more a symbolic to most men. Feeding the male ego. I guess they just wanna say "I had intimate intercourse with a chick and I'm proud of it!". And let's be frank, they wouldn't really care if you think of them as "men" or not.
Luckily, Latios is far more jealous than most here. My wish is this: I hope you are assaulted by many small woodland creatures or have an unfortunate experience with a vending machine, or even both if you're really unlucky.