Eating spiders in your sleep is an urban legend. On top of being improbable, the sensations against your tongue will trigger an unconscious defense mechanism that will cause you to wake up.
so says you but not all spiders are tarantulas in size some spiders especially juveniles can be only the size of a grain of sand or even a few millimetres which even in a state of conscious would be close to impossible to detect and could be easily inhaled in your sleep