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Hello there CHU this is my first topic in oh I don't know how long, I'm feeling a little nostalgic!

Anyway this has been on my mind for awhile and I thought I'd share a little slice of what I've been thinking about with you lovely folks. I warn you I'm going to open up a little here which is an alien concept for me but why not, we're all friends here.

So as some of you may know I recently got a girlfriend whom I can say I have a love for, awww I know! However it has been apparant for quite some time she has some sort of an obsession with a celebrity, not like she just likes him because I really wouldn't care because hell I like celebrities too! This is something different, some sort of unrequited love for him that I don't even think is normal, she knows what I'm pretty sure is everything there is to know about him. At first I thought it would just go after awhile however I don't think that's the case. Anyway to cut a short story shorter I've begun to question myself as it seems to me if she still really wants this guy she can't reeeealy be in love with me right? It seems to me she still feels like she's missing something somewhere and knowing this I can't really be contented. Is it fair I have to know she genuinely loves someone else? Am I overreacting or is this normal? Id rather have her than any celebrity but I get the feeling that somehow if she met him shed leave me for him, I know she probably won't but its just the thought of being second best, a compromise?

Now I know this whole scenario could sound quite childish and immature trust me I've thought so a few times, but I'm a pretty chilled guy and it takes quite a lot to make me uncomfortable so just look at it from my point of view. Anyway thanks for listening CH you've been a big help already!

[Edited by Vonfuzzball, 2/7/2012 7:27:59 AM]

I understand how you feel,but make sure that she doesnt meet some guy that reminds her of him,that could be fatal,but she will probably never meet the celebrity she has the crush on anyway so........I have a celebrity crush on Katy Perry and i dont even like her music,I just like the way she looks...oh and I have a crush on Kate Hudson too......something about those Katey's......

I had a crush on Gemma Arterton until I got with this girl, now I'm not as into her. But that's my point I don't want to have to worry about her meeting someone that reminds her of him, a relationship with this flaw is fundamentally wrong?

I think this will wither away with time, but still if you're that concerned you may want to be honest with her and tell her how you feel about the hole thing and see how she reacts.

One of my early and longest crushes was Emma Watson. After that I had a crush on some girls that didn't last more than a month (LOL). Lena Katina (Tatu singer), Alissa (From the Agonist), and now I like Sabina Schrer (From Deadlock) - Just a wee-bit though...

[Edited by HonestGamer, 2/7/2012 9:14:42 AM]

There are three things in the world I definatly know I can't do, that is taking pee when I know someones watching me, drinking a litre of JD and opening up like that in one go. I know I will eventually will talk to her about this but I'd so prefer it if she just stoped on her own, otherwise I would feel like I've forced her into it and wouldn't be happy with anything she does if that makes sense, I know I'm a crazy man!

Well I didn't mean straight away hit her with an ultimatum do you love this guy or not, use somethings related to the celebrity to give honest cues as to what she honestly thinks about him.

It's really simple: Girls are huge groupies.

She may still love you, but that doesn't mean she won't take her clothes off backstage at the concert.

-Zackman