Like this, if someone truly wants to kill themselves they'll find a way, and no one around them will have seen it coming. Saying "Oh they were so nice and normal" is just daft. We all put a face on in the outside world to the one we wear when we're alone. These people just take that to an extreme. I should know.
I only say the human race as a whole, though, because throughout history you'll find the majority of people looking to others to blame, whether it's other people, or different types of media, to blame for their own problems and those of others and events. Just look at this situation.
[Edited by Skyheart, 6/17/2011 10:41:14 PM]
I do agree with you on most points.
Dressing military,starting a so-called gang,and saying you are going to kill everyone and blow up the school...Yeah,i wouldn't have been surprised.
Would i have seen it coming? Yes.
Would i have been able to stop it? No.
That's the sad thing about this whole situation.
Nothing is ever done because there is no crime until the said crime is commited.
And,i agree,we do put on different masks,different identities around other people.I should know as well.I do it every day.
I'm going to share something very personal with all of you here,because i want you to understand what i'm trying to convey here.
I have tried to commit suicide before.I do not blame the metal bands i listen to,i do not blame my parents,i do not blame the games i play.
I didn't shoot my school up or ever threaten to.
I am not disturbed.Mabye depressed.But,not disturbed.
I am the one who brought myself to that decision in my life at the time.
I was the one who made those choices.I was the one who was soley responsible for any action on myself or to others.
I guess all i'm trying to say is before we blame others we should look at ourselves first.
[Edited by infinite_gamer, 6/17/2011 11:21:46 PM]
It's all about the blame game, even if you blame yourself.
The media and newspapers will say it is to create controversy so people will read and buy their papers.
At first it was taken down because of suicides, then it was supposedly taken down by the Black family as the studio was selling the song on You Tube at $2.99 a view which the family disagreed with as they have the full rights to it as the studio is only a middle man.