man, i am ust overwhelmed with the wonderful comments here. i really appreciate it after this week. dad still isn't doing too well right now and it is hard to say how it is going to turn out, but it means alot to hear these kind words from the members here during times like this. YOU guys are the best-
Been a member of this site for years now, and im not the typical forum poster, even though i am an active user here, but i feel it's my duty to say my feelings on this matter, So i hope your Dad will get better even though it doesn't look good atm, our prayers will be at your Dad's side.
Take care of your family, because you can't resurect them and they don't have continues as we have in the games I lost my mother 1 year ago, and believe when i say that i have so many regrets now. Even if things don't go well, and be sure i wish it won't, family is far more important than games. Take your time, we will wait as long as you need.