mine Your Existing Situation"Is stubborn and strong-willed, once his mind is made up it is impossible to change it. He does not ask for much, so he feels when he does ask his needs should be met." Your Stress Sources "Demands to be noticed by others as an important individual, needs attention and recognition. His current situation is leaving him dissatisfied. He feels he needs to make friends with those who hold the same high standards he does. Wants to stand out as someone at the top of his class and be admired by others. He needs to feel in control which makes it difficult to give of himself to another person. He feels isolated and alone but refuses to appear weak and continues to be emotionally distant from others in order to keep his attitude of superiority. " Your Restrained Characteristics Open and emotionally involved in relationships and easily finds satisfaction through sexual activity. Current situations force him into compromise and placing his own hopes and desires on hold for the time being. "Believes his hopes and dreams are realistic, but needs reassurance from others. Has strict standards when looking for a partner and wants guarantees that he will not be disappointed or lose." "Feels he is not receiving his fair share and is unable to rely on anyone for support or sympathy. He keeps his emotions bottled up, leaving him quick to take offense to small things. He tries to make the best of his situation." Your Desired Objective "Looking for affectionate, fulfilling, and friendly relationships. Seeks intimacy and personal relationships full of love, self-sacrifice and trust." Your Actual Problem Needs to find a stable and peaceful environment which will free him of the worries that are preventing him from achieving the things he wants. Your Actual Problem #2 "Wants to be valued and respected, seeks a close and peaceful relationship with a shared respect of each other."
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