It certainly isn't the most embarassing job. At least you weren't asked to dress up like a woman. Believe me, I would prefer that gumby outfit over this.
Before you ask, I dressed as a girl in a Folk Dance act. :P
Right now you are too young to get into serious relationships. You should keep your priorities on what really matters to your life right now - Education. Don't waste your life with such kind of people, and don't get too emotional about it by hurting yourself...Because in the end it's only you who has to suffer!
This is what that dissuades me from STEAM...The patches are mandatory no matter how slow your connection is. It's like they hate you for buying the original game!