[Edited by Neo7, 9/14/2011 9:22:18 PM]

When you date, you will get dumped or get rejected. You just have to grow some thick skin and accept you have lost this girl for "more-than-friend" relationship. There's no gain from despair over one defeat. You see that small blur and your blog title don't match in that you haven't been looking for other girls because you've been stuck on this one particular girl. It's time to move on in terms of you two being in a relationship (if you can stay as friends with this girl without your feelings getting in the way, then more power to you).

There's many girls out there. Don't limit yourself on what you perceive to be the perfect match when you have not dated every single girl in the world for an accurate comparison.

You improved one thing or two but what probably happen was that all your other "dating skills" went down the drain temporarily. It's a normal bug of the learning process in that dating is a dynamic process requiring lots of skills at the same time and the human mind can only manage to do somewhere between 5 or 9 things at once. Once you start pushing a new skill in, something starts to slip out and you wind up with this confusing combination that "feels different". What the positive thing here is that you are improving what you wanted to improve. You have to integrate it with the rest of "you" in perfect harmony.

"You should hate losing, but never fear defeat."

[Edited by Neo7, 9/14/2011 2:58:03 PM]

You aren't with the right person because you're afraid to find out your personal limits and pin your lack of success to a lack of effort, a ubiquitous yet common commodity in surplus in the world. Those who don't have anyone right now, well they have nothing to lose.

There is a line between normal dating and serious relationship and I'm willing to bet that you have never crossed the line into a serious relationship. Normal dating is a learning process. You date to learn what you want in a girl and you will screw up and feel like crap. That's okay because it's part of the learning process. If you do cross the line into serious relationship, that's when you date to be with her and love her until death do you part.

Sorry to be blunt but sometimes it's the best way to get a message across.

[Edited by moderator Neo7, 9/14/2011 2:03:21 PM]

*Math Problem 1: Prove Theorem 1A*
-Okay this sounds easy
*Takes up half the page*
-Ugh...okay done with that. Next
*Math Problem 2: Prove Theorem 1B*
-Hmph...I must practice tolerance.
*Math Problem 3: Prove Theorem 1C*
-I hate this so much. It's okay because I'm not easily provoked.
*Math Problem 4: Prove Theorem 2*
-DIE! DIE! DIIIEE!
*throws book, paper, and pencil at the wall*