Well it got an overrun erased (Windows Home Server restore through it's special CD erases the Hard Drive then loads the volume it has on record back on it). Either way, all my stuff was on the backup so no need to go through with undelete software.
Half my software was not working since the appdata was in my user folder (which is not protected by UAC) so this way was the fastest way to get up and running again.
If it is to this point, it would be best to escort her to a medical professional.
Yeah it will be awkward bringing this up to others attention, but if it is to save a life, you have to do it. I would first bring this to the attention of a medical professional first with her beside you. That way, it won't overwhelm her and she can get help at a much more comfortable pace rather than everyone tackling her all at the same time.