Yea I know what you mean, its pretty sick what people put on the internet, and like Skyheart says it is just a virtualisation of real life, but way easier to be anonymous about it so people think its ok.
I think the same goes for TV now too though - Just the other night they had on the news about 13 people being shot dead execution style in Syria and then proceeded to show the bodies - this was extremely unnecessary and I still cannot fathom how they justify showing that on the news (not only is it something you shouldn't have to see, its also pretty disrespectful to the dead IMO) - I've already seen one body in real life and that was plenty thanks.
Thankfully on the internet it is very easy to avoid all the nasty crap out there so that's one plus side
So enjoy being the bit on the side, you don't have to put up with all the nagging and moaning and high expectations of being a boyfriend, you get to be the fun guy